FAQ
What sort of guarantee do you offer?
We don’t offer one guarantee; we actually offer two. The first is a full 90 DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE. 90 days should give you more than enough time to get through the entire program. If you find that the program has not helped in overcoming, completely your fear of approaching women and your shyness around women then simply ask for a refund. Our goal, genuinely, is to help you and if we fail to accomplish that then we don’t want to keep your money.
However we realise that by the simple fact of your decision to invest in this program, you obviously place a higher value on eliminating your fears with women than on the $99 it costs for this course. Therefore as well as our money back guarantee, we are going to offer you a very special guarantee. We guarantee you that we will do all we can to help eliminate your anxieties and nervousness around women!
We believe in our program and know that it works! However if for some reason you go through and do all the lessons and exercises in the program and still feel some level of anxiety or tentativeness around approaching and interacting with women then we will continue to work with you via email until your anxieties and shyness are completely eliminated. We will work till we achieve your 100% satisfaction.
We at the Nervous Guy clinic are human beings too and know how much our own romantic relationships have enriched our lives. We, therefore, care deeply about your success. By making an investment of your hard earned money in this program, you have our firm commitment that we will help you to be rid once and for all, of the fears that are holding you back and are stopping you from having the relationships you truly deserve.
Does the program involve positive thinking or affirmations?
A familiar strategy in behavioural change therapy and self improvement is the use of positive thinking and of affirmation or repetition of ‘positive’ statements which are intended to enlist the cooperation of the ‘subconscious’ mind which supposedly controls the course of your life.
The Nervous Guy Program believes such forms of self manipulation, instead of helping, actually lead to increasing the sense of powerlessness and helplessness most people have when trying to direct how their lives will turn out. Think about it…who else but an unconfident person would mentally repeat to himself ‘I am confident around beautiful women’ or who else but a person afraid of approaching women would say ‘I am completely at ease approaching beautiful women’. Positive thinking in this sense, only helps to reinforce the underlying weakness and is just an overlay of self doubt.
Nervous Guy works on the basis that your feelings cannot be directly controlled whether by affirmations or other forms of therapeutic modalities. Your feelings are the product of a very complex human system over which you exercise extremely limited control. However, just because your feelings cannot be controlled by direct means, does not mean that there is no way in which you can improve your condition. Nervous Guy uses certain techniques and processes which allow you to indirectly but no less effectively, outgrow your shyness and timidity around women.
Is the program a form of psychotherapy?
Psychotherapy works on the basis of having you relive the early life experiences that led you to the formation of the beliefs that are currently shaping your life. While portions of the Nervous Guy program involves revisiting childhood moments, the distinction we make is that the childhood event is not the important part of the behavioural equation and therefore does not need to be analysed, dissected or relived in excruciating detail. Instead the Nervous Guy program works on questioning the meaning or belief you created as a result of this event and trys to determine whether such a meaning is actually valid or continues to be valid in your adult life.
However, having said that, the Nervous Guy program acknowledges that excessive analysis of the past only serves to empower the past and perpetuate it. It also leads to a misdirected attention where you are constantly inwardly focused instead of taking the actions you need to take out there in the real world to bring the things you want into your life. The central thrust then, of the latter part of the Nervous Guy program involves leaving the past where it belongs…in the past. Instead we focus on showing you how you can create the life you want now and for the future. By shifting your mental focus in such a forward looking and constructive direction, the past loses its hold over you.
How will I feel after the program?
Our objective is for you to become aligned with the person that you want to be — your true self; the ‘real’ you that you mean when you say ‘if only they knew the real me’. After each lesson and exercise you will invariably find yourself feeling more empowered and confident, “freer” and “lighter” as if in a very real sense a burden that you’ve been carrying for a long time has been taken off your shoulders. You will feel more comfortable in your own skin and around women. You will no longer feel the need to censor yourself or inhibit the true expression of your feelings or desires. You will also feel incredibly empowered having been given tools by which you can bring emotional control and poise into all areas of your life.
Most of our clients have reported going in to a situation with women where they may have previously felt uncomfortable or anxious and find that they are completely at ease without even having to think about it. We can assure you that at the end of the Nervous Guy program you will be completely transformed from the person you are now.